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Husbands & Wives Make that Destroy
Marriage
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In life and
love, you may think you're supposed to always focus on the
positive instead of the negative. However, unless you
become aware of your own hurtful attitudes or actions --
so that you can correct them -- your chances of staying in
love 'til death do you part are close to zero.
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Most
people are guilty of a few of these. Problems
arise when they become the norm rather than the
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To have your marriage last a lifetime, avoid these 11 common
mistakes:
1. Talking "at" instead of "with" your mate. Let his or
her body language be your guide. When you're talking "at" your
partner, he or she will tense up. When you're talking "with"
your spouse, he or she will relax.
2. Tuning out -- instead of tuning in -- to what your mate
is saying. When you mind begins to wander, stop and
remember that what your partner is saying is important to him
or her.
3. Forgetting to thank your mate. Not thanking your
spouse for being considerate, thoughtful or kind makes him or
her feel unappreciated and foolish for caring about you.
4. Getting defensive instead of saying, "I'm sorry."
When you mess up, the sooner you sincerely say, "I'm sorry,"
the sooner your mate can stop resenting you.
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5. Always saying, "I'm sorry," yet never changing. An
apology buys you another chance. However, if you keep making
the same mistake, apologies not only seem empty, but annoying
as well.
6. Being repeatedly late. Frequently keeping your
partner waiting is not only inconsiderate, it's arrogant.
7. Playing the victim. This behavior not only accuses
your spouse of hurting you, but adds insult to injury by
implying that he or she is doing it intentionally, when that
may not be the case.
8. Jumping to conclusions. Presuming that you know what
your partner feels -- and why -- without first getting all the
facts is only going to push him or her away.
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9. Badmouthing your spouse behind his or her back. This
not only adds to the list of secrets you keep from your mate,
but also tells others how little you respect your partner.
10. Thinking that doing something once is enough. If
you only temporarily stop making the above mistakes -- and
don't continue to monitor yourself to keep from slipping back
into bad habits -- you're teasing your partner with changing.
You're also kidding yourself that you're committed to
improving your marriage, when really you're not.
11. Infidelity. Sleeping
around or cheating on your spouse is the ultimate disrespect
and psychologically devastating. Today, through AIDS or
Hepatitis it can also kill. Undetected STD's like
chlamydeous or gonorrhea destroy your chances to have children
if undetected. Condoms and other preventive measures are
not foolproof. Only fidelity by both partners is
foolproof.
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