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I believe he knows he is small and as a
result has a very hard time maintaining an erection. It
doesn't matter what position we try, just before
penetration he loses it. During oral sex I must hold him
very tightly, he does achieve orgasm but if I let go of
him for any reason the erection is gone.
One evening he was so frustrated with the situation that he
stopped everything we were doing. The situation became very awkward
- he explained that he seems to need "constant" stimulation. I know
it was very difficult for him to discuss this with me. There doesn't
seem to be any pain on his part (I thought there might be as he has
a rather pronounce bend rather like a crooked finger) but that's not
the case. I was thinking of purchasing a ring, I believe he would be
open to it - but frankly I'm not sure they come that small.
Suggestions?
Loving Every Inch (F) 40
Los Angeles, CA
Dear Loving:
Before you go much
further, you definitely need to address this problem. Unless you are
both asexual, a bad sex life will ruin your relationship.
However, there is hope and many things that you can do, just as you
are trying to do. Perhaps the cock ring will work, maybe
Viagra® or there
are splint-type devises that he could use. If he has the money, he
could check with a medical doctor about a penal implant.
However, you never mentioned anything about your personal sexual
satisfaction. Does he sexually please you? If so, that's great as a
man gets more satisfaction giving than receiving pleasure. There are
many other ways to achieve orgasm without intercourse. Learn to play
with all parts of your body, mouths, tongues, fingers - whatever
works! Are you aware that the majority of women achieve orgasm
through clitoral stimulation - that's why
vibrators are so popular.
Dr. Joan
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