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10 Most
Serious Mistakes
Smart Singles Make When Falling In Love
by Andy
Whaling & The Dating Singles of Singles Directions
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Each Sunday up to 140 people in
Pasadena, California gather. This group of single men
and women in their thirties, forties and fifties meet to
work on relationship skills, meet other singles and
share life experiences through Andy's group
Single
Directions.
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When it comes to relationships, even smart singles
make serious mistakes
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Sunday March 9, 2003 the group collectively
combined their life experiences and voted on over 30 different
mistakes adults learn through the school of dating hard knocks.
From their voting they drew up this list of the Top 10 Most
Serious Mistakes Smart Singles Make when Falling in Love.
Take a look. If you are in a
relationship that seems to have stalled or you can't seem to get
past that 3 or 6 month mark, you may find the reason (thus
providing the solution) below.
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1. Creating a relationship
without also building a friendship.
Getting deeply involved and never
taking time to get to know your partner or care about
what really matters to him or her.
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2. Not
being honest about how you really feel, what you want or what
really bothers you. Instead you:
a) Pretend there are no problems and
go along with things.
b) "Walk on Eggshells" or stuff your feelings instead of
doing what’s hard: resolving issues or leaving. |
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3. Not
taking care of yourself before, during and
after "The Relationship."
4. Depending on your partner for your happiness instead of
establishing your own life.
a) Expecting the other person to
make your life wonderful and complete.
b) Putting everything into and building your whole life
around just one person. |
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5. Forgetting that true
love takes time:
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Leaving too soon. |
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Expending all your energy on creating romance or focusing on sex
rather than working on the relationship.
7. Searching for love without knowing what you need or want.
8. Believing that if the sex is good everything else will work
out.
9. Relying on first impressions to make your choices and
predetermining your expectations.
10. Failing to discover what went wrong in your last
relationship and therefore making the same mistake again. |
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