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When your income dives 90%...
What would you do if you went from $120K a year to $12-$24K?
 

Dear Nancy:

I’ve been unemployed for 16 months and have had to take a position at 10% of my value. This was hard enough to find due to my being so overqualified. Most employers didn’t even want to speak with me. I never thought my MBA would put me behind a convenience store counter.  This isn’t supposed to happen to college graduates, and especially not those of us with advanced degrees.  Who re-wrote the rules?

 


Some people get in credit trouble because they live outside their means.  What happens when your means drop 90% and your perfect credit disappears?  What do you do?

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During this unemployment period, I was unable to pay any of my credit card bills and have since been turned over to collections and in some cases lawyers.  My new income isn’t enough to begin paying these back and given the current state of the economy and our regime targeting war strategy, the chances of landing a decent paying job in my area of expertise seems nearly zero.  Based upon this, is bankruptcy my best option?  I’ve looked at the penalties levied upon persons with bad credit and it seems once you hit 60 days past due, you are better off filing for bankruptcy.  I’m at nearly 400 days past due on 5-cards for a total of just under $12,000.  That use to be a 1-month paycheck. Now it is almost my year’s salary.

With bankruptcy, once it is discharged you can begin rebuilding. Without it, it appears I’m screwed for at least 5 years. My only concern about bankruptcy is I will lose my car.  I’m 4-payments away from paying it off and there is no way I can replace it.  It has low miles and I’ve taken extremely good care of it.  My objective was to pay it off and begin applying the payment amounts toward a down payment on a home.  I took your suggestion and read How to Get Credit After Bankruptcy, what I need to know now is if my anger at the situation is clouding my judgment or if bankruptcy is indeed my best option.  I just want this over with so I can begin rebuilding all that I’ve lost and move on with my life.

Your Q&A’s also address “What are you doing to prevent this from happening again?” When the economy picks up again I am sure I will be able to again find employment at my regular salary and in a position that utilizes my education and training or plan B, begin profiting from my own business.  As a future plan, I’ve started a company on the side utilizing my expertise to help insure this doesn’t happen again and my first book is about to be published.  These are all long-term strategies.  Unfortunately it is the short-term that is killing me.

Please let me know if I’m thinking clearly and if bankruptcy is the best option.  How badly will this hurt my ability to live from this point forward?  What about my ability to land another executive position with bad credit?  Normally I don’t handle the money but I do administer and create budgets.  Even the little $8 an hour no-skill jobs have been running credit checks and doing personality profiles now, which shocked me.  I’m sunk the minute they run one.  How do I clean up this mess?  Need some direction. Thank you.

Sincerely,
Humble Pie MBA, (F) 36
Single, never married
Seattle, WA


Dear Miss Pie,

You’re right about the rules changing, but I don’t know who’s responsible.  One comment in your profile really stuck out:  “When the economy picks up again I am sure I will be able to again find employment at my regular salary…”

That’s a healthy attitude, but I’m concerned it may be a bit unrealistic at the moment.  A dozen or so years ago, our economy went through a similar downturn, and middle management was practically eliminated from the corporate echelons.   With comfortable lifestyles to support, many in this well educated and experienced, but now unemployed group, set out on their own.  The rise of an entirely new industry based in technology resulted.  That’s why your Plan B excites me!

Why does the imminent publication of your book and starting a business have to be a long-term strategy?  When you say your “first book is about to be published,” does that mean an advance?  Royalties any time soon?  A resume credit that would help in your job search?  And what about the “company on the side” you’ve started?  Does it show any promise for quick profitability?  What do you need to really get it off the ground?

Remember the old adage:  It’s always darkest before the dawn.  It sounds to me like it’s a moonless night at your place, with the potential of a gorgeous sunrise bursting out real soon.  Yes, you’re still thinking clearly, but you’re going to sabotage yourself if the stress and depression that’s creeping in ever gets a hold on you.

The short answer to your question is yes.  Bankruptcy may be your best option.  In your particular case, it may make sense, though it should still be considered a last resort.  If you haven’t talked with a consumer credit counselor (http://www.cccsintl.org/), making an appointment should be your first step.

While your letter was quite candid, there are a myriad of unanswered questions you need to look at before making a decision.  First, you say you are past due on 5 cards for $12,000.  Is that the total indebtedness, or the amount of payments to bring the cards current?  What about assets?  You have a car, but do you have anything else -- a home (doesn’t sound like it)…IRA…401(k)…etc.?  If you own a house and have a 401(k), you may be able to protect your equity, even in bankruptcy.  In any case, I would prepare a statement of assets and liabilities, talk with consumer credit counseling, and if you decide on bankruptcy, hire a bankruptcy attorney to help you.

Now let’s deal with what
you have going for you! 
There are good things and not so good things.  You feel confident that you’ll be able to eventually find employment at your “regular salary”.  Frankly, I’m not so sure.  Our economy is in a state of flux, and I sure don’t see any guarantees that we’re going back to where we were.  I’d put your MBA, Miss Pie, to use.  With your book and the ‘side business’, it looks as if you already may have done so.  You have the credentials to be your own boss.  Is the courage and passion there too?  If so, it won’t matter what your credit check says!
 

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